i disagree with you very strongly, hk. what she did was in fact a big deal. i have a 14 year old daughter who was watching to see one direction perform. i think she missed miley's whore dance, and i'm thankful for it. my kid was a big fan of miley's tv show, but at age 14 she hasn't completely developed her skills of discernment. my wife and i help her as much as we can as often as we can, and think she's pretty well-grounded, but what about all those families where there is a lack of parental guidance? what do you say to those kids about how miley conducted herself? do you tell them with a shrug of your shoulders "oh, that's just normal"? you have too many kids without the ability to discern, and we ALL know that kids are great imitators of what they see.
i don't know if you have kids, but if/when you do, i imagine you'll view some of these things differently, especially if you have a daughter.