What's the right thing to do?

[notherhalo]

Haven't heard from a long time friend for some years now, guy went AWOL and we were buddies since 3rd grade

He messaged me today after about 2-3 years, as I sent him something, figuring he was just busy or something

"Is it true that you sent my girl a message saying I was cheating on her?"

I told him in so many words 'no way' etc

His response: me and her are going to have a BIG problem, are you sure?

I didn't respond, I know them and am told they are not a fighting couple (who knows)

Should I lie and say it was true to possibly save a long term relationship or let things fall where they may? For the record I never messaged her once about anything......

What's the right thing to do here?

Expecting funny answers as well

[Homebrewer]

How would you know he was cheating, if you hadn't talked to him in 2-3 years?

You friend sounds paranoid..or is a drama queen, or both

Advice?

Stay away from him, he is going to be nothing but trouble.

 

You're young, aren't you?

[Angels_Make_Me_Drink]

Stay away. Sounds crazy. I'd worry for her safety, too.

[Amazing Larry]

Pork his girlfriend. It's the only reasonable thing to do.

[yk9001]

Why wouldn't you respond again, and say, "yes, I am sure.  No cheating."

 

A non response is like a de facto 'no'.

 

 

 

How old are the people involved?

Edited January 4, 2016 by yk9001

[ten ocho recon scout]

Pork his girlfriend. It's the only reasonable thing to do.

thats seriously the only thing i can think of too.

Hes already mad at you. He already said they are going to have a problem. Just go ahead and crush her. Worst case scenario is in another 3 years he asks if you tasgged his girlfriend.

You can hang out here with us in the meantime. (And show us the snapchats)

[Blarg]

Answer his text with:

You have a girlfriend? I thought you were gay.

[notherhalo]

mods, delete this thread when you get a chance

Ive been hanging out with the guy on and off since early childhood (like everyday when younger, for years)  He would be in my wedding lineup if I got married today (and we were cool)

 

I just told the guy the truth and even gave him my FB login, he apologized and whatever happens, happens

She was probably just testing him because he used to be a player, but I never saw him cheat nor said anything

 

greetings from Budapest, when you told me about how AIDS was prevalent in S Africa too, I decided to pass

[Blarg]

Oh hell no, this thread should live and breathe like the breakup thread where we offer sage advice that you ignore then get caught stalking high school girls.

[Amazing Larry]

I hate hearing about girls playing games like that. There seems to be a major trust issue. Maybe the best advice would be to tell him to get away from her.

[Sully151]

This thread has potential, unlike your buddy's relationship.

[Tank]

we all think you should break up with her, cory.

[ten ocho recon scout]

mods, delete this thread when you get a chance

Ive been hanging out with the guy on and off since early childhood (like everyday when younger, for years) He would be in my wedding lineup if I got married today (and we were cool)

I just told the guy the truth and even gave him my FB login, he apologized and whatever happens, happens

She was probably just testing him because he used to be a player, but I never saw him cheat nor said anything

greetings from Budapest, when you told me about how AIDS was prevalent in S Africa too, I decided to pass

well careful now...lol, budapest is the hub of euro porn...so wear the latex there too bro!

[Slegnaac]

If you haven't seen this guy for 2 - 3 years how does his girl even know you?

Plus shouldn't his girl be showing him the evidence she has, instead of him trying to get it from you?

This reminds me of a story I heard from a guy. Seems he had been going with this girl for a few months. They decided to go to Mexico for a weekend. He gets a bunch of travelers checks and she has the responsibility to hold on to them. Friday morning they are getting ready to leave but she can't find the checks. Short on time he decides to just use the CC. But he makes a reminder list.

Monday

1. Go to the bank and cancel checks

2. Get new GF

[Hollyw00d]

Tie a go pro to your penis

[Blarg]

If you haven't seen this guy for 2 - 3 years how does his girl even know you?

He told her in the shower, "Hey, I don't want to upset you but your boyfriend is cheating on you and your conditioner is terrible!" Edited January 5, 2016 by notti

[CaliAngel]

I typically don't mean to be a dick to friends, especially ones I've known for a while, but if I've really been friends for so long either they trust me or they don't. That's just kinda how it's always been with my chums. If they really don't think they know me well enough to take me at my word at this point, I don't understand why we're even still friends.

 

Same pretty much goes for women I've been with. If they're going to take someone's word over mine, and the trust isn't mutual, why are we even together?